Things with in-laws can get tricky and if you’re married or have ever been married, you know exactly what I’m talking about.
And this woman asked readers of the “Am I the A**hole?” page on Reddit if they think she is out of line for how she acted towards her mother in regard to her husband.
Read on to see what went down.
AITA for refusing to make my husband apologize for what he said to my mom at dinner table?
“So, I f31 recently got married to my husband Scott m36.
Before I met him I was engaged to my former fiance Martin, but we broke it off because this relationship was sort of pushed by my family because he’s a doctor and comes from a wealthy family. When our relationship ended mom was devastated.
She did her best to bring us back together, For example she lied to Martin about me being pregnant to save “us”. That was years ago now we’re all on good terms including Martin. Mom has a bit of tension towards Scott, she treats him well but constantly makes passive, nagging comments about him. She compares him to Martin all the time which bothers both of us but we try to let it slide.
Mom kept telling Scott about the diamond ring, new car, and bank account Martin got for his fiancee and kept sending him photos saying how generous Martin is to his fiancee than compared him to Scott and what he had done for me. I told her stop doing this and she apologized.
Last week, we were over at my parents house for a social gathering, lot of relatives came and we had dinner. At dinner table mom asked Scott if he saw the text she sent him the other day, he said he was sorry and that he didn’t notice. She told him to check it right then and read it out loud so everyone at the table could hear.
He took his phone and started reading the text out loud. Her text mentioned how Martin got his fiancee a new house and how generous he was, then said that Martin is younger than Scott, yet was able to buy a house. Basically shaming Scott for his inability to buy a house. She wrapped up by saying that Martin maybe wasn’t so bad for me after all.
I was shocked and Scott was pi**ed obviously, however, he didn’t lash out or anything he looked at the text, smiled and said “you know, what gets me about this entire text is how you were a public educator for 30 years, yet you can’t differentiate between the passive “you” and the contraction “you’re”, Good God! The thought of all the children that must’ve been left behind!”.
Everyone at the table busted into laughter and mom’s face went pale. She decided to leave the table then she and my sister started yelling at me saying Scott was being awfully rude and I need to get him to apologize immediately for embarrassing mom at the table. I refused to tell him to apologize then pointed out how she was being judgmental towards him, she defended herself saying she was just letting him know and he had no confidence and took it personally.
I left but kept getting told to talk to him and get him to apologize for what he did.”
Let’s see how Reddit users responded to this story.
One person said this woman is indeed the a**hole and asked why she’s letting her mother treat her husband like this.
Another individual agreed and brought up a good point…
And this Reddit user said this woman has a lot to think about when it comes to her husband AND she needs to lay down the law with her mother.
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